Are you struggling to understand and cope with the sadness, shame, and trauma of the sexual acting out of a loved one?

Do you or someone you love experience the following?

• Tolerance of behaviors in a relationship that others would not tolerate
• Self sacrifice with the unexpressed expectation that it would create loyalty and appreciation
• Doing things for others that you should be doing for yourself while mired in self-neglect
• Becoming someone you don't like- such as a nag, a "parent" to the addicted spouse, blamer or rager
• Setting rules, agreements, contracts, or boundaries but not abiding by them
• Rescuing others compulsively
• Believing tall tales- giving the addict the benefit of the doubt when it's not warranted
• Being disabled/destabilized by the addict's crazy-making behavior
• A firm belief that if the addict could be convinced to do "X" everything would be better
• Attempts to keep the peace in the relationship at all costs 
• A high degree of intensity, drama, and chaos
• Excessive concern with the opinions of others- attempts to keep up the appearance that all is well

If you or a loved one experiences problems with any of the above, know that there is hope.  What is Co-Sex Addiction?  Click here. 

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